The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Creating an intimate atmosphere that doesn't threaten relationships

just1gurl · 02-08-2006, 09:08 PM

Alrighty then, I've been reading and reading these posts.

My question is:

WHAT EXACTLY IS IT THAT "RESPECTS" the couples involved and their relationship????

This is alluded too, seconded, and amened all over the boards. BUT WHAT IS IT?

What I know- we are coming together for unrestricted - consensual sex with peoples' partners. This is agreed. What part is it that crosses the line?

From my experience - the brain is the best sex organ a guys got. I love to mess with their brains. But you know a little flirting is to boost the old ego! Thats a real necessity to them, just from my experience. tickle their grey matter.....

I don't want them to fall in love, I don't want to take them home (unless we were all going) but this play to get the juices flowing, would that be construed to be misleading, um, or to make jealousies boil etc? I'd look for honest things I'd admire about the person, and the desire to make them feel good, and special! -- just rubbing the naughty bits to me is a dis-service to the act of fun. I'd imagine though everyone may be different on what it is that would create problems.

Could ya'll share your thoughts on creating an intimate atmosphere but that doesn't "threaten" relationships?

seems like it could be treacherous grounds?

02-08-2006, 09:08 PM	#1 (permalink)
just1gurl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 183 Location: washington dc area Status: single	Creating an intimate atmosphere that doesn't threaten relationships Alrighty then, I've been reading and reading these posts. My question is: WHAT EXACTLY IS IT THAT "RESPECTS" the couples involved and their relationship???? This is alluded too, seconded, and amened all over the boards. BUT WHAT IS IT? What I know- we are coming together for unrestricted - consensual sex with peoples' partners. This is agreed. What part is it that crosses the line? From my experience - the brain is the best sex organ a guys got. I love to mess with their brains. But you know a little flirting is to boost the old ego! Thats a real necessity to them, just from my experience. tickle their grey matter..... I don't want them to fall in love, I don't want to take them home (unless we were all going) but this play to get the juices flowing, would that be construed to be misleading, um, or to make jealousies boil etc? I'd look for honest things I'd admire about the person, and the desire to make them feel good, and special! -- just rubbing the naughty bits to me is a dis-service to the act of fun. I'd imagine though everyone may be different on what it is that would create problems. Could ya'll share your thoughts on creating an intimate atmosphere but that doesn't "threaten" relationships? seems like it could be treacherous grounds?