 Re: Husband crossed the line on what was agreed...
To me it sounds like a little bit of the green eyed monster is taking over. I can't say I blame him for wanting to play with the female half of your swing couple, since that is what you were there for, in essence. I am not a man, but I think it would be difficult for anyone to lay a banquet out in front of a hungry person and tell them they couldn't eat.
Still, that aside, you did have an agreement and he broke it. I would talk about it and if you can't come to a place where the swinging arrangement is more equitable, since thats what he wants, then I would stop swinging. He's telling you that he wants more -so listen and make sure you discuss it when you are alone, sober and not emotional about the whole thing.
If you are unable to share him with another woman due to jealousy, yet you are with another man, you may not really be ready to swing.
As we say in business, make all your deals before you get into the board room.
Ms. LD
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