 Re: I tried- I tried- UPDATE
well I know it's been awhile and I'm still reading the board, so I thought I would post an update.
On the marriage front, we're ok. Still together, he still checks our swinger account for email but has not sent out anything. And from keeping a watchful eye on his chat msger, I haven't seen any conversations.
So from what I've seen, at least it appears he's cooled it.
On the sexual end, since I pulled the plug and put my foot down, sex on the home front is better, the frequency has improved and he's trying different dietary suppliments and testosrum (sp) cream to help boost his libido. He's also definitly more attentive and affectionate towards me. And even just a little possessive too.
Swinging, Nope, nothing yet, I miss the socializing, parties and select friends we've made, but I'm not ready to jump back in just to give him what he wants, "One Way" streets never work and that is something he has to come to terms with for us to ever be part of swinging again. when, or if we get back into it. It will be for "us".
And even better news.... I finished the baby blanket, and have begun a new one to keep here for when we have the baby visiting, and ohhhh it's a girl, we have a brand new grand-daughter as of Jan 21st. 8 pounds 20 inches long and the sweetest most perfect and soon to be very spoiled baby.
I hope everyone is well, safe and happy.
pacpl4fun
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