We are worried about getting there and a cpl chatting us up an then making them feel like shit if we get cold feet it just seems unfair on the other cpl.
i would say dont worry about that at all.
its really not a big deal if you "back out"
you dont have to do anything at all, and just chatting at a club, might be all you want to do .. and thats ok
although we are a loving cpl we have our peoblems and i(female)am very wary as i feel that it may add to our problems and make it harder to climb out of our probs.
it could add to your problems, .. but one thing for sure, it wont fix problems ..
so dont go into it thinking it will somehow make things better ..
just take things real slow, only do what youre absolutely comfortable with
jana