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janaandjames · 02-04-2006, 12:27 PM

we'll be a little more adventurous and do the same room thing and see how it works out.
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interesting, i would have thought seperate rooms would be more adventurous

just a matter of perspective ... i prefer the safety of same room. so for us, to do seperate room, would be unusual

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My gut feeling tells me it was just first time jitters though. My first time with a woman was actually a similar experience, and being so worried about what to do and how she would like it, I think it was a little bit of overload and even somewhat distracting.

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youre probably right about that.
anything the first time ... is a stressful experience.

jana

02-04-2006, 12:27 PM	#14 (permalink)
janaandjames Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 123 Location: kansas Status: female half of couple Swing Lifestyle Name:janaandjames	Re: How do you deal with loss of excitement while playing? we'll be a little more adventurous and do the same room thing and see how it works out. >>>> interesting, i would have thought seperate rooms would be more adventurous just a matter of perspective ... i prefer the safety of same room. so for us, to do seperate room, would be unusual >>>> My gut feeling tells me it was just first time jitters though. My first time with a woman was actually a similar experience, and being so worried about what to do and how she would like it, I think it was a little bit of overload and even somewhat distracting. >>> youre probably right about that. anything the first time ... is a stressful experience. jana