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janaandjames · 02-04-2006, 11:13 AM

I knew my wife was upstairs with the husband, but maybe deep down I still had a little anxiety about it.

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we have had that experience too.
we find that we just do not enjoy seperate room swinging nearly as much, and dont get as excited.
as someone said, it does depend on your style.
we enjoy clubs, but dont get as aroused there as we do with either a single male playmate or another couple..

jana

02-04-2006, 11:13 AM	#12 (permalink)
janaandjames Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 123 Location: kansas Status: female half of couple Swing Lifestyle Name:janaandjames	Re: How do you deal with loss of excitement while playing? I knew my wife was upstairs with the husband, but maybe deep down I still had a little anxiety about it. >>>> we have had that experience too. we find that we just do not enjoy seperate room swinging nearly as much, and dont get as excited. as someone said, it does depend on your style. we enjoy clubs, but dont get as aroused there as we do with either a single male playmate or another couple.. jana