My husband and I have been interested in the life for awhile now, but just last night had our first experiance. It wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. Actually for some strange reason, it makes me want him more than ever..Don't know why that is
But anyway, it was not anything as I thought it would be, it was actually very enjoyable for both of us. Just make sure you talk about how you feel, be completely open with eachother and honest and it should all be ok. We also set up some ground rules that make us more confortable. Discuss if you should have ground rules, a safe word, ect..for things that make you unconfortable. Most important, trust each other and see it as it is...SEX...Nothing personal, not lifetime relationships, just fun and enjoying each other and others for a period of time and you should be just fine....
