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cur_cpl_n_chey · 02-03-2006, 03:10 PM

your definately not in the minority, I find it is usually the first time we play with a couple that things will happen but we don't usually reach fulfillment. I have noticed that with my husband erection occurs but he rarely finnishes. It happens sometimes with us alone but more often that not its when we are in a foursome or a threesome. There is only one guy that we play with that my husband finnishes.

We make a point to meet the person or couple at least once before we play and this is part of the reason we don't go to clubs besides its real far to drive. This is to make us more at ease with each other.

I hope this helps
mrs Cur

02-03-2006, 03:10 PM	#9 (permalink)
cur_cpl_n_chey Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 31 Location: Cheyenne,Wy Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:cur_cpl_n_chey	Re: How do you deal with loss of excitement while playing? your definately not in the minority, I find it is usually the first time we play with a couple that things will happen but we don't usually reach fulfillment. I have noticed that with my husband erection occurs but he rarely finnishes. It happens sometimes with us alone but more often that not its when we are in a foursome or a threesome. There is only one guy that we play with that my husband finnishes. We make a point to meet the person or couple at least once before we play and this is part of the reason we don't go to clubs besides its real far to drive. This is to make us more at ease with each other. I hope this helps mrs Cur