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wolvocouple2 · 02-03-2006, 08:45 AM

thanks for all the great advice. we do talk quiet alot and are very open about what each other think they could or could not do or cope with the other doing, but the main question that we both have is how we will feel about each other after and if we will cope having to look at each other in a completely different way. as we have a young family it is very important we dont do something that will hurt it. a relative of ours has had 2 experiences and it has made their relationship spiral out and are on the verge of breaking up as it has caused so much bad feeling between them, they decided the way they wanted to go and chose to start with sharing with a single male while they totally enjoyed and loved the experience it has had a knock on effect and they are at each others throats all the time and it has been brought up in an arguement in a hurtful way. so as you can imagine it has made us rethink our own situation.

02-03-2006, 08:45 AM	#5 (permalink)
wolvocouple2 Registered Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 4 Location: wolverhampton	Re: new and with no experience would love some help thanks for all the great advice. we do talk quiet alot and are very open about what each other think they could or could not do or cope with the other doing, but the main question that we both have is how we will feel about each other after and if we will cope having to look at each other in a completely different way. as we have a young family it is very important we dont do something that will hurt it. a relative of ours has had 2 experiences and it has made their relationship spiral out and are on the verge of breaking up as it has caused so much bad feeling between them, they decided the way they wanted to go and chose to start with sharing with a single male while they totally enjoyed and loved the experience it has had a knock on effect and they are at each others throats all the time and it has been brought up in an arguement in a hurtful way. so as you can imagine it has made us rethink our own situation.