 Re: How due I get my wife into swinging
Holy moly, phadz, you just got a ton of great advice. I'll add my bit to the pile.
I'd suggest approaching her with the intention of sharing something you find interesting. Explain why you find it interesting (be very specific) and what your fantasies are. Make sure she understands that you are merely trying to share a part of your sexuality with her, and that this is not a demand you are placing on her, but something about yourself that you are trusting her with. It's okay to be vulnerable with one another. Most couples are very uncomfortable being this vulnerable, but it is essential. She may become defensive or feel threatened because she doesn't realize that you do not want to separate your sexuality from hers. You want to go on this adventure together, because it just wouldn't be any fun without her. You have no interest in hurting her. ...You just wanted to know what she knows about it, what her impressions are, and would she be interested in having a look at a couple of websites?
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