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HappyPeople · 01-31-2006, 07:05 PM

Perhaps you guys moved too quickly. Maybe wading into the water before jumping in would have better prepared you.

Anyway, now that you've already gone there, there is still an opportunity to take it slow. We like to think of swinging like dating... We started off with watching, then did some light play, then a little more play, then even more play, and now do it all. Granted, it wasn't all with the same people but for us, we did things one step at a time and even though you've already "gone there", you can take a step backwards and take the slow lane.

01-31-2006, 07:05 PM	#10 (permalink)
HappyPeople Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 390 Location: Tampa	Re: Help with Husband's Conflict Perhaps you guys moved too quickly. Maybe wading into the water before jumping in would have better prepared you. Anyway, now that you've already gone there, there is still an opportunity to take it slow. We like to think of swinging like dating... We started off with watching, then did some light play, then a little more play, then even more play, and now do it all. Granted, it wasn't all with the same people but for us, we did things one step at a time and even though you've already "gone there", you can take a step backwards and take the slow lane.