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DnHtxCPL · 01-31-2006, 05:23 PM

I Dito what everyone else has said, I went through the same rollercoaster of emotions the first couple of times i watched her with another man. it's pretty normal. Mostly a lot of guilt issues that I had. Finally accept myself for what I like and am and life is much better lol. A lot of difference for him in the fantasy of it and the reality happening right in front of you.

It's going to take a lot of communication on both your parts and brutal honesty. (a lot of people swear to be honest and they do try. But it's hard to do. Most people fudge a little.)

Good luck

01-31-2006, 05:23 PM	#8 (permalink)
DnHtxCPL Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 49 Location: D/FW Texas Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ngtytxcpl	Re: Help with Husband's Conflict I Dito what everyone else has said, I went through the same rollercoaster of emotions the first couple of times i watched her with another man. it's pretty normal. Mostly a lot of guilt issues that I had. Finally accept myself for what I like and am and life is much better lol. A lot of difference for him in the fantasy of it and the reality happening right in front of you. It's going to take a lot of communication on both your parts and brutal honesty. (a lot of people swear to be honest and they do try. But it's hard to do. Most people fudge a little.) Good luck
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