outside the box looking in..................................... you indicate
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There was something, no need to go into but unrelated to the situation at hand, which occurred just minutes prior to my encounter with the other man, which set my husband off into a whirlwind of conflict.
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yet you go on to say that
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I honestly feel if that unrelated incident had not occurred, he would not be going through everything now.
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Fact is, It is related as a couple I would be finding out WHAT HAPPENED (with his emotions) and WHY
Some other things that caught my eye..........................
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My husband, who flipped out for a week with fear I would back out and not "f**k" the other man,
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my husband finally convinced me to seek out another sexual partner
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"Convinced" ??? Random word choice or is that how you really feel inside
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Up to that point he was forceful about me doing this
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again
These are just things in your post that stand out to me!! Communication is the important theme here, be it at home or in the therapist office that will be your only saving grace at this point !!