[Thrax]

Mr. Arami, I'm a single male who has been in the swing world for about five years. I happened upon this board three months ago and have found that it validates most of my beliefs as a "swinger," a term with a variety of definitions.

I don't know you, so it's difficult for me to judge your original post (which IMPLIES a single male) against your other messages which discuss your married status. Whatever.

In the future, I suggest that you give more detail when you outline your situation and desires. That is, if you are married, mention that your wife is okay with you being involved in an MFM without her permission. If she is. It may seem rather old-fashioned to you, but many swingers (and most here) are concerned about their full-time relationships and the impact their actions can have upon those relationships.

I apologize for the Board if you have an MFM opportunity (with your wife's permission), declared your situation, and we have made statements from ill-informed judgments. However, I feel it is your responsibility to give us the full details of the relationships and opportunities before you ask for advice. That would be only fair.

Finally, I would not have really paid much attention to this thread, except that I am a single male. Single males have enough difficulties in the swing lifestyle. We don't need more complications, whether intentional or not.

Thrax