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Old 01-27-2006, 06:41 PM   #161 (permalink)
bear_n_bunny
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Default Re: new and looking

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Originally Posted by wayne55
Thanks for the info. I will act on some of the replys. To answer a question that was posted, I am looking for a "long term" relationship with a quality woman. Not a "ticket" as it was put.

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W
Unfortunately a lot of single guys will try to find a "ticket", since most swinger's clubs and parties don't allow single males (and for good reason).

In your case, the easiest way to approach this would be to make the rounds of the more laid back dating sites, like AFF, Matchmaker and others that don't heavily restrict what you can put in your profile, and set up accounts in each. (And yes, using swinger sites like Swing Lifestyle or CT can help, as you do actually find the occasional single woman on these sites who are not focused solely on other women. However, unless you are Dash Riprock, packing a ten inch Dick of Death and a well-packed bank account, you will have a rather long wait.)

I would handle this with a certain subtlety, simply including in your profile that you are experienced in the swinging lifestyle, and would like to meet a woman who either also experienced in the lifestyle, or at least amenable to the idea of getting into it with you at some point.

Use your imagination, but this is the gist of what you want to include in your profile, along with all the rest of the usual stuff you'd include as a man looking for a relationship, etc.

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