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Old 01-27-2006, 06:36 PM   #23 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
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Default Re: married going alone

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Originally Posted by sereneiders
Swinging is a way to enhance our marriages, while cheating is a way that may lead to degrade it
This is the very simple point that a few folks are just too mentally numb, emotionally narrow or irreparably bitter to get...

Everyone goes through bad experiences - either in marriage or some other very close relationship. The logic error that I am seeing is that somehow cynicism is a sign of wisdom Maybe it is just some pathetic badge of courage...

I know what a bad marriage is - and I know what a good marriage is. If you're a man, you take care of your shit at home. I've always followed that - through the good times and bad - and because of it, I can be honest with my wife in all things (not just sexual). Then again, I tend to think a little honesty in a marriage is a good thing. :rollseyes

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