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Originally Posted by bluesplyr I can't remember where the ladies involved were not aware of my situation. As a matter of fact, on numerous occasions they felt more relaxed and safe. |
Does that include your wife, or does she get to remain ignorant of the situation for your 'convenience'?
I've been married and divorced. Neither is easy. Frankly, I think those of you claiming to be "married for convenience" and "in a sexless marriage" need to grow some balls, be a
real man, and make a decision. Either decide to stay married, quit cheating, and work to fix your marriage; or get the hell out.
90% of the cheating men I have ever known stay married for
their convenience, not that of their spouse or children. They stay married because it's a way to keep that unpaid maid and sex service that they find so useful and comforting while they're not out fucking around. They stay married because they think it shows them in a good light in their community ("Isn't he a great father?"). Then they're the first to "dump the bitch" if she returns the favor by cheating on them.
If I didn't have scruples, I could get all the sex I wanted by helpin' your cheated-on-wives to return the favor--and trust me, there are plenty of guys out there who will and
are.