 Re: How do you deal with loss of excitement while playing?
For some folks, the "friendship" is not important, and for some, it's something they do not want at all.
We don't necessarily need it to be a "friendship", but the discussion and fantasizing beforehand makes the experience better for us.
There is also the nerves factor in playing with others. Because we don't want one-night-stands, or fuck-and-flees, we find that the more we get together with a couple or single, the better it gets. Certainly there are times that there are no repeats, but it happens. You don't know how it's going to go until you get together. For us, the more comfortable we are with our partners, the better it goes for everyone.
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