thank you guys for the reply
is good to know that what is happening to us is not completely crazy, i mean even if the day after my husband and i were so excited we couldnt even keep our hands off each other, the feelings during playing were different.
i think that it will change in time as we get more experience. truth be told we never talked before with the people we played, we met at a party (not play party) and talked for about 3 hours before going home with us, so is not like a "friendship had been established"
we are looking forward to move on with this and eventually make it feel as natural as we dream of