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2inVT · 01-27-2006, 08:26 AM

It takes a while to figure out what best works for you.

For Mr2, it's going to work best if he has contact online with the lady of the couple we've got a playdate with. It gives him a chance to talk about what she likes and how she likes it, and it gives him time to think about what's going to happen and fantasize a bit. It starts the foreplay, so to speak.

That also works for me, and foreplay in person is also good. For me, a bit of flirtatious assertiveness on the part of the other man is very erotic. Knowing that he's attracted to me and wants to fuck is important.

It's just a matter of figuring out what your style is, and what makes you hot.

Swinging tends to be a process; with more experiences you develop what you need as a couple.

01-27-2006, 08:26 AM	#3 (permalink)
2inVT Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 136 Location: Vermont Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:2inVT	Re: How do you deal with loss of excitement while playing? It takes a while to figure out what best works for you. For Mr2, it's going to work best if he has contact online with the lady of the couple we've got a playdate with. It gives him a chance to talk about what she likes and how she likes it, and it gives him time to think about what's going to happen and fantasize a bit. It starts the foreplay, so to speak. That also works for me, and foreplay in person is also good. For me, a bit of flirtatious assertiveness on the part of the other man is very erotic. Knowing that he's attracted to me and wants to fuck is important. It's just a matter of figuring out what your style is, and what makes you hot. Swinging tends to be a process; with more experiences you develop what you need as a couple.
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