The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How do you deal with loss of excitement while playing?

gaznrachy · 01-27-2006, 08:13 AM

Not being very experienced myself I'm probably qualified to reply to this one!

I beleive it is perfectly normal to feel this way. I still do! As much as it is a dream come true and so exciting I only get to half mast! If you know what I mean!

Much of it is over excitment I think.

Also the situation is so different from what you or I are used to, 2 people who know and love each other in a bed. Now you may have many poeple interacting and I think like any new exciting and unusual exprience it will take a while to become relaxed completely with it.

My wife is similair, although she gets unbelievably wet she just can't orgasm...her nerves I guess.

If you had a great time then don't worry about it and just keep having a great time. I'm sure the rest will come in time....excuse the pun!

Good luck!

01-27-2006, 08:13 AM	#2 (permalink)
gaznrachy Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 51 Location: UK Status: couple	Re: How do you deal with loss of excitement while playing? Not being very experienced myself I'm probably qualified to reply to this one! I beleive it is perfectly normal to feel this way. I still do! As much as it is a dream come true and so exciting I only get to half mast! If you know what I mean! Much of it is over excitment I think. Also the situation is so different from what you or I are used to, 2 people who know and love each other in a bed. Now you may have many poeple interacting and I think like any new exciting and unusual exprience it will take a while to become relaxed completely with it. My wife is similair, although she gets unbelievably wet she just can't orgasm...her nerves I guess. If you had a great time then don't worry about it and just keep having a great time. I'm sure the rest will come in time....excuse the pun! Good luck!