Sorry I didn't go back and read my post before hitting submitt. I have no intention of being an bystander
, but for me it's always about pleasing MrsVan, even during our regular sex life, so I don't see that changing even if we go further down the road in this new endavor.
Any advice you have is always welcome.
We haven't had any chances yet, but we are moving closer so we will see what happens.
-Van