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Originally Posted by arami This is a first for the couple as well. |
Be very patient.
Reassure the husband - if it gets to that point - that you will stop if he gets uncomfortable. Same, of course, with the wife.
But, prior to that, just put swinging out of your mind. Keep the thought of sex as far from your mind as possible. Just "shoot the shit" with the husband. Be a normal, down to earth, completely "undesperate" guy - and you'll be fine.
Good luck to the three of you.
Play safe and PLEASE be very understanding of this couple. A first for them can be fairly traumatic - much more than it will be for you. Be sensitive to this and you will be valued by them more than you can imagine.
Spoomonkey