[Spoomonkey]

I think in the club setting it would be very tough. I mean, that is some fairly personal information and you wouldn't want to share that right away. Share it with the wrong couple and you might as well wear that H button...

I would respectfully say that personal ads may be the safest, most discreet way to go.

If you said to us "we have herpes" we'd thank you for your honesty, explain that we don't and then treat you as friends. But, we have learned the hard way that there are folks at most clubs who aren't nearly so understanding.

Spoomonkey