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MrsVan · 01-26-2006, 06:53 AM

MrVan and I personally when we see a post come through to us that is a married male wanting to join a MFM with us and he is participating alone, we tend to not get involved. For us it is the issue of whether or not your spouse actually knows that you are living this lifestyle and if the spouse does not know then it can be that your relationship could be rocky and your trying to seek something outside of the marriage.

There may be couples out there that are comfortable with you playing alone but for us we prefer the single type. Hope it works out for you but if you decide to play alone and the spouse does not know that your wanting to join this lifestyle, I would suggest in talking this over and letting the spouse know your interests.

MrsVan

01-26-2006, 06:53 AM	#2 (permalink)
MrsVan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 667 Location: Ohio Status: M.Female Swing Lifestyle Name:MrMrsVanHlebar	Re: married going alone MrVan and I personally when we see a post come through to us that is a married male wanting to join a MFM with us and he is participating alone, we tend to not get involved. For us it is the issue of whether or not your spouse actually knows that you are living this lifestyle and if the spouse does not know then it can be that your relationship could be rocky and your trying to seek something outside of the marriage. There may be couples out there that are comfortable with you playing alone but for us we prefer the single type. Hope it works out for you but if you decide to play alone and the spouse does not know that your wanting to join this lifestyle, I would suggest in talking this over and letting the spouse know your interests. MrsVan