Mr Van and I are both on our Second Marriage and going stronger than our first marriages... We both were young when we got married the first time (although we are still young to me
) and things were different in those marriages. We do not fight, our relationship is great and wow the sex is even better
I had tried to bring up this lifestyle to my first husband and his reaction was that I just wanted to cheat (although he was the cheater and not me)...MrVan was shocked that I even brought the lifestyle up and could not believe that his sweet and innocent wife would be willing but I am and hope to get the opportunity to prove this to him.
We sometimes make the comment to others that we feel everyone should get married and divorced to really learn from a relationship. The things we learned from our first marriages has helped us to see what we need to do in our marriage to make us as happy as we are now. There is no jealousy or any type of issue between the two of us going into this lifestyle as we both know that our hearts and our love belong to each other and hey "it's just sex, so have fun with it".
I could not be any happier to go into this with MrVan.
MrsVan