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babydragon · 12-22-2002, 01:27 PM

I wont say you shouldn't swing but I would like to maybe give some cautionry advice. One of the main things Not to do is jump straight into the club scene, I have heard of way to many couple getting well over their heads in more ways than one.

You need to be able to sit down with your SO and decide what is exceptable to you both, set boundries, rules and always stick to them. Way too many people dont take the time to find out what is exceptable and whats not, thus causing alot of heartache that anyone could do without.

It isn't easy to find your own personal nitch in the style, as many have found out before you. I wish you all the best and hope you have many years of swinging fun. Remember one thing though, the guys on this site have years of experience (some more than others) if you ever have a problem or any questions (even if you think it's a silly question) these guys will always answer you to the best of their knowledge.

12-22-2002, 01:27 PM	#7 (permalink)
babydragon Active Member Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 102 Location: U.K Status: couple	I wont say you shouldn't swing but I would like to maybe give some cautionry advice. One of the main things Not to do is jump straight into the club scene, I have heard of way to many couple getting well over their heads in more ways than one. You need to be able to sit down with your SO and decide what is exceptable to you both, set boundries, rules and always stick to them. Way too many people dont take the time to find out what is exceptable and whats not, thus causing alot of heartache that anyone could do without. It isn't easy to find your own personal nitch in the style, as many have found out before you. I wish you all the best and hope you have many years of swinging fun. Remember one thing though, the guys on this site have years of experience (some more than others) if you ever have a problem or any questions (even if you think it's a silly question) these guys will always answer you to the best of their knowledge. __________________ Always try things three times: 1st time to try it out. 2nd time to see if it's better. 3rd time just to recap 1st and 2nd.