I prefer to have the man take the lead but it really depends on the mood and the connection between us. Sometimes I'll take the lead. It's rare though, Spoo is definately the one in control and even when I try he turns it around and takes the lead
I sometimes get a little frustrated because there are times when Spoo is taking the lead with the female half and the male half is doing nothing to help me get things start between me and him. There is one couple though that I do take the lead on and leave him no doubt what I want facelick
Mrs Spoomonkey