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Old 01-22-2006, 10:00 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by mystic
This is how my brain is wired. It's different from you.
Actually, we're all wired differently than each other.

And thank God! If we were all the same- what a boring life we'd lead.

Having worked for a psychiatrist for a number of years, I saw a lot of people overcome tremendous difficulties.

It's amazing what a little medication and altering your style of thinking can do. It's not so much how we're wired, mystic- most of it is learned behavior and habit.

We can reprogram our thinking by working with a good therapist and having the desire to really want to change. Nothing is ever a quick-fix. Change is a lifelong process.
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