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Old 01-21-2006, 02:57 PM   #14 (permalink)
mystic
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Join Date: Dec 2005
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Location: windsor, ontario
Status: single male

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Default Re: What are the first few things that come to your mind when a guy has never had a g

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Originally Posted by sexyshelby
Honestly, the first things that come to mind are:
Is he gay?
Is he really THAT busy that he doesn't have time for a girl?

I agree, don't lie about it. There's nothing wrong with being 25 and never having a girlfriend. Just be honest about your situation. If you don't like to talk about the past, just tell people that. We all have things from the past that we dont like to talk about, when someone brings it up, I just politely say that I'd rather not talk about that.

I agree that some therapy might help you to deal with your anxiety as well the issues from your past.

~SS
Okay, that sounds like good advice. Thanks.

It's hard to believe "there is nothing wrong it" when I certainly don't feel fantastic about it. The thing is, half the reasons are that haven't lived my life much yet, and the other half are skill/self-esteem related. I just hope the feeling goes away when things start moving better for me, because it's a pretty strong negative feeling and I try not think on it much.
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