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JnCC · 01-21-2006, 12:40 PM

Well, I'm not a woman, "but I stayed in one last night" so I guess that makes me qualified to speak authoritatively on the subject.

I think that a person can be attractive on the outside, but suffer from a complete lack of social and/or interpersonal skills. Some people will eventually acquire those skills through practice. Others are destined to live very solitary lives.

You're 25 years old...the same age as my oldest daughter. In terms of expected life-span, you're at the "top of the third," and you haven't put a runner on base yet. In fact, from the sound of things, you haven't even made contact with the ball. That would concern me, as would the fact that you're having to invent a back-story to account for your lack of a social life up to this point.

Whatever you're doing, dude, it ain't working. It's time to make some changes. Exactly what those changes should be, I'm in no position to answer.

01-21-2006, 12:40 PM	#6 (permalink)
JnCC Has Left the Building Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 817 Location: Mulletsville, USA	Re: What are the first few things that come to your mind when a guy has never had a gf? Well, I'm not a woman, "but I stayed in one last night" so I guess that makes me qualified to speak authoritatively on the subject. I think that a person can be attractive on the outside, but suffer from a complete lack of social and/or interpersonal skills. Some people will eventually acquire those skills through practice. Others are destined to live very solitary lives. You're 25 years old...the same age as my oldest daughter. In terms of expected life-span, you're at the "top of the third," and you haven't put a runner on base yet. In fact, from the sound of things, you haven't even made contact with the ball. That would concern me, as would the fact that you're having to invent a back-story to account for your lack of a social life up to this point. Whatever you're doing, dude, it ain't working. It's time to make some changes. Exactly what those changes should be, I'm in no position to answer.