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sexyshelby · 01-21-2006, 11:11 AM

Honestly, the first things that come to mind are:
Is he gay?
Is he really THAT busy that he doesn't have time for a girl?

I agree, don't lie about it. There's nothing wrong with being 25 and never having a girlfriend. Just be honest about your situation. If you don't like to talk about the past, just tell people that. We all have things from the past that we dont like to talk about, when someone brings it up, I just politely say that I'd rather not talk about that.

I agree that some therapy might help you to deal with your anxiety as well the issues from your past.

~SS

01-21-2006, 11:11 AM	#3 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: What are the first few things that come to your mind when a guy has never had a gf? Honestly, the first things that come to mind are: Is he gay? Is he really THAT busy that he doesn't have time for a girl? I agree, don't lie about it. There's nothing wrong with being 25 and never having a girlfriend. Just be honest about your situation. If you don't like to talk about the past, just tell people that. We all have things from the past that we dont like to talk about, when someone brings it up, I just politely say that I'd rather not talk about that. I agree that some therapy might help you to deal with your anxiety as well the issues from your past. ~SS __________________ What's love got to do with it?