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Originally posted by MichiganCouple
I kinda lost you here. You are saying that the wife "pigenhole's" you as a strange one because you avoid commitment? Most swinging wives I know
kinda like that particular characteristic and consider it an asset when it comes to an extra male.
I saw no gratuitous self promotion here though...no need to apologize...just because your mirror reflects a studly rich guy doesn't make you all bad, in fact when I look at myself I see an ordinary guy that has to work hard to make ends meet so I guess I justify my shortcomings by avoiding the mirror and meditating on how charismatic I am..and how many peole love me....LOL> |
To clarify:
I am sure that these wives really do want their single male partners to refrain from untoward advances and emotional attachments. But I am equally sure that it vexes them somehow to realize that the SM really doesn't secretly want more from them. They aren't being dishonest in their desires either. I honestly think they encounter so many SM who do want more, that they expect it and when it is missing something seems odd.
And I'm not rich...not yet anyway. LOL! Sounds like you are though, where it really counts.
Live and Love Well.