The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Looking for friendship more than sex, where to find it?

valley · 01-19-2006, 07:17 PM

Part of Kharnal's post,the thread titled 'not just in it for the sex'......

" If we were single, we wouldn't be the people to fuck on the first date unless something really special happened, and we apply the same idea to swinging."

We are in it ONLY for the sex.If we make a friend on the way,thats fine.When we choose a guy to join us it is because I desire him sexually.....as if I was still single.The normal criteria exists.I see him,I fancy him,I talk with him and decide if there is any rapport.Mixed in with all the chat are the little questions regarding his attitude to our intentions.

However,the point is we are talking to him with sex in mind.Not to create a new friend.Thus,swinging ,for us is only for sex.

01-19-2006, 07:17 PM	#12 (permalink)
valley Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 131 Location: australia Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:valley195	Re: We're not just in it for the sex... Part of Kharnal's post,the thread titled 'not just in it for the sex'...... " If we were single, we wouldn't be the people to fuck on the first date unless something really special happened, and we apply the same idea to swinging." We are in it ONLY for the sex.If we make a friend on the way,thats fine.When we choose a guy to join us it is because I desire him sexually.....as if I was still single.The normal criteria exists.I see him,I fancy him,I talk with him and decide if there is any rapport.Mixed in with all the chat are the little questions regarding his attitude to our intentions. However,the point is we are talking to him with sex in mind.Not to create a new friend.Thus,swinging ,for us is only for sex.