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Originally Posted by kharnal
I'm very aggressive and open on dates. First intellectually, then emotionally, and finally physically...It was a natural progression...It's about being "in the moment" and that means not thinking "when are they gonna want to fuck?" Just a state of mind where nothing is expected.
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You are speaking my language, kharnal!
For me, the clubs haven't tickled that spot that takes me to the greatest heights...not much intellectual and emotinal stimulation on a dance floor. There's plenty of physical stimulation at clubs, your senses will be bombarded. That gets most swingers motors revving. For me it becomes a buzz that turns to crazy madness, or humdrum watching everyone "doing their thing" in front of you; nothing is subtle at a club. There is nothing intimate about the club experience for me. And I like intimacy.
Mr LM and I have tried the clubs on four occasions and we will continue to give it a go now and then if we have nothing better to do or want to flirt around, but it just doesn't have the seduction or sexual stimulation of meeting one appealing couple for drinks and feeling each other's minds up.
I've elaborated more than I expected. 
Maybe it was this statement that prompted it:
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Originally Posted by good times
It seems like the people that go to clubs are much more into "sex first then we will see where it goes"...
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Thanks good times!
LM