[good times]

Dito those above.

We have found that someone who is a lot of fun for sex is not often someone we would enjoy just hanging out with. In fact, in the slightly over three years we have been actively swinging we have only met a few couples that we also enjoy spending time with outside of the bedroom. It is not that we don't want to become friends outside of swinging with these people, it is just that we find them attractive and sexually exciting but other than that we don't have much in common. So we have come to realize that just because we get along great for sex doesn't mean we would enjoy doing anything else with them. Thats why we enjoy the clubs better than the internet add sights. It seems like the people that go to clubs are much more into "sex first then we will see where it goes", whereas, on the add sights it seems like a larger percentage of the people are more into "lets get to be friends and then see where it goes". The problem with the later is that it rarely gets to sex because, lets face it, most people are pretty descriminating about who they can be friends with, which pretty much means they never get far enough along to get to the sex part.