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kharnal · 01-19-2006, 01:20 PM

Thanks for the advice!

It's important to me that we don't come off as "posers."

I'm very aggressive and open on dates. First intellectually, then emotionally, and finally physically. I almost always end up in the sack with a girl on the first date, but that has never been my goal. It was a natural progression. We wouldn't want to meet a couple that would be too forward, but just as much wouldn't want to meet a couple that held back.

It's about being "in the moment" and that means not thinking "when are they gonna want to fuck?" Just a state of mind where nothing is expected.

01-19-2006, 01:20 PM	#5 (permalink)
kharnal Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Los Angeles	Re: We're not just in it for the sex... Thanks for the advice! It's important to me that we don't come off as "posers." I'm very aggressive and open on dates. First intellectually, then emotionally, and finally physically. I almost always end up in the sack with a girl on the first date, but that has never been my goal. It was a natural progression. We wouldn't want to meet a couple that would be too forward, but just as much wouldn't want to meet a couple that held back. It's about being "in the moment" and that means not thinking "when are they gonna want to fuck?" Just a state of mind where nothing is expected.