It's very difficult sorting through this bombardment of "no strings attached sexual encounters" to find REAL people who just want to go out and have a good time. We don't want to go out with a couple who would think a night not ending in sex is "incomplete." There is of course a sexual side to it, but more than that we want to hang out with a couple that we can feel like we aren't making uncomortable with our intimacy (the way that we make our friends feel uncomfortable with it).
If we were single, we wouldn't be the people to fuck on the first date unless something really special happened, and we apply the same idea to swinging.
Should we look for a more experienced couple that can be patient with us? A new to swinging couple that we could explore this with together? Would it be better to look online, at an off-site, or an on-site?
Thanks a lot for your help and advice!
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