[beardedone]

I was a single male in the lifestyle some years ago. My rules were to be friendly, polite, and show interest when I was. But don't be overbearing about it. Then and now, I love to fast dance and lots of women seem to enjoy dancing that way; makes a great ice breaker. If we went any farther, all of us let it be known that discretion is expected and given -- no problem and no stress about it.
Summary: I always had a great time after I got over the initial shyness the very first night. This went on for several years.
Caveats: Once, the lady of a couple expected me to be with them all the time after that and that was not how I wanted to interact with everyone. She was hurt/angry for a few minutes but it would not have good for me to "just go along" this time.
Another party near the last one, I saw a single female dancing extremely provocatively and I wanted to dance with ther and really wanted her in the worst way. However, I had already committed to a 'steady" girl, so all I could do was dance. That dance made me want here even more . (The things we give up when we couple up!!!) Such sweet sorrow.

Bearded One