[HappyPeople]

Lose the weight because you want to lose the weight but don't worry about losing it so that people will find you attractive, you sound like you are at an attractive weight already. Granted, I am a woman but I've found that most men tend to agree with my preferences in women.

The bodies of very thin women just aren't as exciting as a woman with a bit more for me. It's a real bitch because I am thinner than what I prefer so I kinda wonder if I would be more fun if I gained more weight but I hate gaining weight so ARRRRGGG!

I believe that weight concerns are just a cross that women have to bear... If you are full, then you worry about it, if you are thin, you worry about it. I don't really believe that there is a weight/height ratio that would actually make most women feel secure.

In my opinion, the ideal woman is a woman that feels good about her body. Nothing is uglier than a woman that aplogizes when she takes off her clothes - she's doing me a huge favor by taking them off, not the other way around. Don't even joke around about your weight because you just might insult the person that is really appreciating every gram of it