Hmmm. Interesting turn of events, eh?
I love it when we guys have the best women in the world, have everything we could dream of when in comes to a relationship (if we were mature and thoughtful enough to dream of such things), but yet we are STOOPID enough to think there is more out there, and we should put the good stuff on hold to go get it.
Ok, that even confused me.
Anyway, what I'm getting at is that a lot of times we have these wonderful women in front of us, but we don't want to see it. Then when confronted with our own blatant stupidity, we panic, professing our undying love. Because we know that we have something comfortable, familiar, and we don't have the self confidence to start over, even though we may not be totally happy with what we have.
Kudos to you, mrs pacpl, for not backing down. Your hubby needs to wrap his brain around the idea that swinging should only go the way of the "least interested" partner. (for want of a better term...not the best, but I couldn't come up with anything better
).
I hope things work out for the best for you two.
Mr Twofer