Re: New~ Are we doing this right? Negativity breeds negativity, Cute Couple.
While I certainly understand the reluctance to play with a friend of long duration, I feel it doesn't have to be a threat to that friendship. In fact, we once played with a friend I've known over thirty years. That was about fifteen years ago. He and his wife have divorced since then so we never played again but he is still a friend. We're both just thankful for the good time we had that night.
The stronger the friendship the more likely you are to remain friends after the fact. That's pretty much true of married couples, too.
If your husband hasn't asked him yet, I have one suggestion. Don't ask a question that can be answered "yes" or "no." Try, "How do you feel about group sex?" rather than "You wanna fuck my wife, Old Pal?"
Good luck, and let us know how it goes.
Alura
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