Okay, I must say I am kinda bummed about the negative response I have recieved by most. I guess we just have to go with our gut feeling...that this is right. We have talked and imagined every possible scenario (including negative) and are both comfortable and can handle whatever comes of it. We think it will be a wonderful experience. I do have a question for those who strongly oppose the situation...what is so different between my thread and this one:
http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...read.php?t=615
That person got a much more positive response about involving friends.
Also, I am sooo confused by the whole "you have an attraction to him...this is risky." Should I not be attracted to someone I will potentially have sex with? Personally, I hope to have an attraction to whomever we eventually explore this with. If we have the chance to do a FMF, it HAS to be with someone Mr is attracted to as well.