 Re: worried for wife
I also would also never be comfortable with my wife and a stranger alone. Although she has played alone it has always been with someone we know well.
Why does your wife really want to be alone with him? I would bet she doesn't want to hurt your feelings if she seems to be having to good a time. So you two need to talk about this in depth.
Lastly, if it doesn't work for one of you, it doesn't work for both of you. Meaning if it makes you uncomfortable then your wife shouldn't do it (and visa-versa). Doing so will just cause trouble in the relationship. Swinging is an activity that should be exciting for both of you, not just exciting for one and a source of anxiety for the other.
Mr. WS
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