 Re: New~ Are we doing this right?
Valley, I love that motto. I would encourage this couple to explore their area clubs and their own reactions to the swinging scene before, as newbies, appraoching a friend. Also the fact that "he" has known this guy since childhood and is not really sure how he would react and is a co-worker all, in my mind, point towards being cautious. Some things when out of the box are awfully difficult to put back in. If they do decide to go foward the best advice I could give would be to just relax and let the evening take its course. If it is meant to happen it will...trust me. If not, then not. Don't force it. In our experience it is always best to just go with the flow.
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