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Old 01-17-2006, 08:15 PM   #4 (permalink)
The Fuse
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Default Re: Mild Body Image Issues

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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321
At your height and weight you will be in the majority.

If you saw someone like yourself - size 14 - at a club would you ignore her? Would you think of her as someone who belongs in the "uglies only" corner and not approach?

Hopefully you'd be open to approaching people like yourself as well as those unlike yourself in physical appearance. A swing club is a social event as much as a place to find compatible playmates. It can be a great place to make friends.

Be sure you say hello to all physical types, and remember, the only person who can keep you in the corner is yourself.

Welcome to the Board!

LM
Thanks for your replies. No, I would not ignore someone my size--in fact, I think I'd like to play with a nice soft rounded woman. The more I think about it, I guess I have been concerned that people will expect more of me than I actually do of them. I think once we meet some people, we will be more relaxed.
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