[ciscosv]

MY opinion (the male) is that single guys are looking for some no strings sex. Since I was once single, I KNOW what being a single male is like. We all get horny but the male will usually go to greater lengths to get laid. We are all animals respectively. Nature proves that the male will fight or do the mating dance for the chance to create offspring. Humans get lonely since we are not asexual creatures and the hand can only satisfy for so long.

I may offend some single dudes when I speak on the topic of single males. I've been single before and dont have a problem with speaking at it. Lets face the facts.

I am married now and love every moment with my life partner. Bad and good. My wife and I fantasize about swapping, jumping into a pile of naked bodies and any other pleasurable sexual expierience that gets our juices flowing.

Dating can be a pain in the ass when you are a single male. That is basically the only way to get some action unless you pay a prostitute. I think that the basic idea is that since we say that we are swingers (to anyone in general), we are ready to fuck anyone. This is a big misconception about us as swingers (my wife and I). The church goes an rants about this stuff sometimes. My wife has veto power over me as well as i over her. We dont care if you are rasputin and carry a 9" schlong. If she is not up for something....I respect it.

So the deal is this: What man would not jump at the opportunity of some no strings attached sex? That is a question with a really simple answer. There is no love, no commitment, a wet pussy and totally free!

I know there are exceptions to the rule. But those exceptions always prove the rule.

I cant speak on chickening out. Maybe these folks misrepresented themselves or got in over their head. Taking fantasy from reality can be tough and sometimes is better off just that....a fantasy.