OK, it had been her rule and was probably OK, in her mind, for her to end it. But, I do remember being a little miffed for a moment. Well, until I got back in the bedroom with this beauty that I'd only had foreplay with. Then, I quickly forgot about being miffed.
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this is a great point.
important to talk about everything first.
even when you think it is ok with the other.
last time we were at an on-premise club .. lots of people dancing etc., and we do full swap.
still, my wife had decided she wanted to have sex with this man who she had been dancing with.
usually we are together at all times, but that night, we were not, our rule is that we play together, and things have to be "approved" by the other person before we do anything sexual with someone.
anyways, she came and asked me if it was ok.
she knew it would be, but i was very pleased that she asked first
james