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Beachbum_aus · 12-20-2002, 11:01 AM

OK. I'm not sure if this should be in here or the single male section, but it isn't a question about being a single male, rather a theory that couples and singles may like to comment on.

There is much written across the boards about 'timewasters' and in particular single males who fail to show up or turn out to be rude and pushy.

I agree wholeheartedly there is no need for rudeness, pushiness or even males who don't shower (phew...)... however.....

This is my theory for the rest: Males generally have a fantasy of having the threesome or going to a swingers party.... but when it is suddenly about to become reality do you think that males suddenly 'chicken out', 'freak out' or suddenly realise that they'd rather keep it as a fantasy.....

I agree there is no need to not show up, and a polite phone call or email to say that they've reconsidered would be gratefully accepted... but what do people think about the 'keeping it a fantasy' theory?

Looking forward to some replies.

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Beachbum_aus Registered Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 3 Location: australia	The Single Male Theory OK. I'm not sure if this should be in here or the single male section, but it isn't a question about being a single male, rather a theory that couples and singles may like to comment on. There is much written across the boards about 'timewasters' and in particular single males who fail to show up or turn out to be rude and pushy. I agree wholeheartedly there is no need for rudeness, pushiness or even males who don't shower (phew...)... however..... This is my theory for the rest: Males generally have a fantasy of having the threesome or going to a swingers party.... but when it is suddenly about to become reality do you think that males suddenly 'chicken out', 'freak out' or suddenly realise that they'd rather keep it as a fantasy..... I agree there is no need to not show up, and a polite phone call or email to say that they've reconsidered would be gratefully accepted... but what do people think about the 'keeping it a fantasy' theory? Looking forward to some replies.