 Re: How are woman programmed?
that you were not threatened by it and actually found it hot. If you encourage her when she makes that type of comment she will start to see that it is okay for her to have the feelings she is feeling, and that you are okay with it. It won't happen right away. I totally understand her saying she was just joking.
this is a great point
she needs to feel confident that she can say such things and that it wont come back to bite her.
no matter how much you tell her otherwise, she wont believe it until she knows by experience what she can say ... and that leads to what she can do.
just follow at her pace .. it will work out
but realize, once women get started swinging, they wont stop lol
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